Where the cookies came from

Mommy's little helpers did a wonderful job of making cookies for her work today. Enjoy!

DPoD June 22nd - The Train Art Project

The boys wanted to do some art this morning, so we thought that we'd pull out the art bin and have a go. Big C picked out some of the train magazines and helped daddy to do every step of the work. I was quite impressed. He cho0se the trains that he wanted, he pushed on the scissors, he put the glue on the back of the trains (nearly by himself!), placed them on the paper and then patted them down. By far his favourite part was patting the trains into place.

Monkey was doing his own artwork with the trains and chose the deisel with no light and no coal tender. What a great way to spend a morning!

Enjoy grandpa!!

DPoD June 21st - Waking up with Daddy Snuggles

My favourite way to wake a sleeping buddy. He's so cute and dopey in the first few minutes. He gives the BEST hugs and snuggles right in. I love watching you grow up, but wish at times that I could freeze you in these moments.

The Free Tree Initiative

Would you like to make things a little greener? Save some of the CO2 from reaching the atmosphere?
Wanna do it for it free?
The city is giving away free trees - pretty ones at that - so long as you register and then later go get it yourself.
For more info here's the web adress with all the details:
http://ottawa.ca/city_services/environment/city/forestry/tree_program/plant/index_en.html

We're hoping to post more ways to reduce your footprint on the Earth soon. If you have any ideas please comment!

DPoD June 20th - The Promise of Raspberries

Monkey makes sure that we check the bush every day. So far there have only been little flowers which have now been replaced by the tiniest of little berrylings. Soon enough however there will be lots of afternoons where Monkey asks 'is this one red?'. I'm sure that Big C will be in on the game as well. Thank you mommy for making sure to bring along a healthy plant that has already grown enormously this spring.

DPoD June 19th - Monkey with a popsicle

Monkey has certainly taken to OJ popsicles. There hasn't been a day recently that I've come home when he's already either had one or is asking to have one. I always oblige. The joy on his face as we sit on the back step and share popsicles is priceless. Thanks for the idea mommy!

DPoD June 18th - Monkey finally takes a nap

He was overdue for a little catching up on his leep after a really, really exciting weekend. Thank you Grandpa and Grandma and happy 60th grandpa again!

DPoD June 17th - Happy Father's Day Grandpa's

WE love you two!

I thought that this picture of Big C taking a good Sunday afternoon nap was appropriate.

DPoD June 16th - New words I've learned 'Cheese'

Now every time that daddy brings out the camera this is all that I can do or say - CHEEEEEESE!

Ouch, back off my business folks!

I recently was at an event where the fact that I am still breastfeeding 16 month old big C came up. This information was met with a chorus of "ew", "yuck", "gross" along with disgusted faces and people, educated people, squirming in their chairs.

It was the first time in the 3 years (total) of breastfeeding that I have come upon such incredibly rude behaviour.

It occurred to me later that if the same person had said "yeah, she smokes around the children" (I neither smoke nor permit anyone to do so near my kids) I don't think that people would have felt so free to respond as they did. Oh I think that many would have been thinking that smoking around children is not a good idea (or worse), but I don't think that any would have actually said it.

So this is strange to me. We all know that smoking poses health risks. While everyone might now agree with extended breastfeeding (breastfeeding beyond one year), I doubt that people think that it actually causes harm. So why was it okay to react that way with a person you had met 2 hours before?

I am not asking for people to agree or approve of the way that I raise my family, I am just asking for respect while I do what is right for my family. I will respect you while you raise yours.

Extended Breastfeeding

I nursed Monkey for 18 months and Big C is 16 months and still nursing 3 times per day. This is right for our family. We believe that breastfeeding is the optimal way to feed babies and a great supplement to a toddlers diet. When will Big C wean? I don't know, you'll have to ask him.

So why do we do it? For a number of reasons including, but not limited to the following:

Extensive research on the relationship between cognitive achievement (IQ scores, grades in school) and breastfeeding has shown the greatest gains for those children breastfed the longest. References

• The American Academy of Family Physicians notes that children weaned before two years of age are at increased risk of illness (AAFP 2001).



• Nursing toddlers between the ages of 16 and 30 months have been found to have fewer illnesses and illnesses of shorter duration than their non-nursing peers (Gulick 1986).



• "Antibodies are abundant in human milk throughout lactation" (Nutrition During Lactation 1991; p. 134). In fact, some of the immune factors in breastmilk increase in concentration during the second year and also during the weaning process. (Goldman 1983, Goldman & Goldblum 1983, Institute of Medicine 1991).



• Per the World Health Organization, "a modest increase in breastfeeding rates could prevent up to 10% of all deaths of children under five: Breastfeeding plays an essential and sometimes underestimated role in the treatment and prevention of childhood illness."



• Many studies have shown that one of the best ways to prevent allergies and asthma is to breastfeed exclusively for at least 6 months and continue breastfeeding long-term after that point. Breastfeeding can be helpful for preventing allergy by:
  1-reducing exposure to potential allergens (the later baby is exposed, the less likely that there will be an allergic reaction),
  2-speeding maturation of the protective intestinal barrier in baby's gut, 3-coating the gut and providing a barrier to potentially allergenic molecules,4- providing anti-inflammatory properties that reduce the risk of infections (which can act as allergy triggers). References
  


• A US Surgeon General has stated that it is a lucky baby who continues to nurse until age two. (Novello 1990)



• The World Health Organization emphasizes the importance of nursing up to two years of age or beyond (WHO 1992, WHO 2002).



• Scientific research by Katherine A. Dettwyler, PhD shows that 2.5 to 7.0 years of nursing is what our children have been designed to expect (Dettwyler 1995).
  References [see also position statements supporting breastfeeding]

Bennys for moms

• Breastfeeding reduces the risk of breast cancer (References). Studies have found a significant inverse association between duration of lactation and breast cancer risk.



• Breastfeeding reduces the risk of ovarian cancer (References).



• Breastfeeding reduces the risk of uterine cancer (References).



• Breastfeeding reduces the risk of endometrial cancer (References).



• Breastfeeding protects against osteoporosis. During lactation a mother may experience decreases of bone mineral. A nursing mom's bone mineral density may be reduced in the whole body by 1 to 2 percent while she is still nursing. This is gained back, and bone mineral density may actually increase, when the baby is weaned from the breast. This is not dependent on additional calcium supplementation in the mother's diet. (References).



• Breastfeeding reduces the risk of rheumatoid arthritis. (References).



• Breastfeeding has been shown to decrease insulin requirements in diabetic women (References).



• Breastfeeding moms tend to lose weight easier (References).

If you do a google search and you'll see lots more reasons why people breastfeed their children for the amount of time that is right for thier families.

DPoD June 15th - 2 Goofs on the Stairs

I love my little guys!

DPoD June 14th - The Thomas Tragedy

So this morning I checked my work e-mail to find that another Thomas parent found an article regarding a Thomas recall. The article can be found at http://abcnews.go.com/US/story?id=3275264&page=1

Please take a moment to look through your stock. We have currently removed 5 of his trains from circulation and are looking for James' tender (Monkey has been told that he gets a popsicle if he finds it so he's been looking non-stop). We'll get the boys lead tested just to be sure that they haven't ingested the lead since both of them have spent a good deal of time chewing on them.

DPoD June 13 - Teething Galore

Though the smile in the picture doesn't do it justice, our little guy has teeth 7 through 10 erupting in the back of his mouth. Those big molars are causing quite the ruckus at times, but every once in a while he's all smiles - especially when the camera comes out so that he can say 'CHEESE'

DPoD June 12th - The Blue Bird House

Monkey and I had a great time painting the bird house this morning. We made it together at the Fun Day on Sunday and today seemed like the perfect time to sneak into the cool basement and paint it up. He determined that it should be blue, so away we went. We had a great time painting it and then we hung it in a spot where we can watch to see who occupies it!

DPoD June 11th - This is what it looks like when you fall asleep on your pacifier

I just had to grab the camera for this one. The poor little guy fell asleep on the pacifier and when I got to him he looked like this. Originally he wasn't upset, but then he got a little frustrated when daddy took a moment to take the picture.

Based on the imprint on the left side of his chest he looks like Dr. C to me!

Hi Teena

My friend Teena moved away two weeks ago and I miss her. Tonight I was checking my Google analytics account. Usually there is a major flurry of activity in Ontario and a shout out of love from my friends, family and co-workers on the west coast (as well as some random accidental hits from Asia and Europe). Now, there is a new dot allllllll of the way on the other side of the country in St. John's. Hi Teena, good to see you *sniffle*

June 10-quote of the day

As spoken by Monkey during supper:

"Mommy, it would be delightful if you could bring that over to me"

DPoD June 10th - Family Fun Day at the Slots

Today it was family fun day at the racetrack slots. Since the fair was such a great day for the boys we decided to tell a few friends that they should come too and that we'd make an afternoon out of it. We were joined by Cordy and then later E-man.

Monkey and Big C both started the day by checking out the reptiles. Big C was very interested in the really big snake, "then thought let's run away". Next Monkey pet the large alligator (easily identified by it's 'A' shaped nose rather than the 'C' shaped nose of the crocodile).

Monkey and daddy built a bird house since they didn't have the stuff to make a 'bunnypult', though I'm sure that'll be the next project. We had a balloon animal made for us, played indoors and out, raced the horses since we were at the track , and then Big C was done and headed for home with daddy.

We grabbed a video of Daddy and Monkey racing thier horse. There is also a lovely interlud of Big C running like...well, running like Big C with his big grin and his arms flailing. We will try to get the video posted but we never did manage to get the last one up. Nope, didn't work. I would love some help if anyone has more of a clue than me.

BTW, we have the video footage of "Phil Falling" loaded on to a DVD. We will be happy to distribute this to anyone who thinks that they can get it loaded for us.
____ end of Daddy's message____

The day continued after Daddy and Big C left. Big E and Monkey thoroughly enjoyed themselves in the "slip and slide" area. Since Big E's momma is a pretty major wimp when it comes to snakes that are the same diameter as she is, Saje brought big E and Monkey to pet the ginormous snake. They thought that was awesome.

We topped the night off with a BBQ at the Bussey household (where the most recent quote of the day was uttered) and then off to bed. Currently it is 8:01 and all three of my boys are fast asleep.

We'll be sure to catch the next outdoor fair or fun day. Keep checking in!

My Jaw

So what is going on with my jaw you ask? TMJ is the answer. It seems that the motor vehicle collision that I was in last April knocked my jaw out of alignment. I have dislocated the disks on both sides of my jaw. I had some minor TMJ before the collision but nothing that was causing me any pain, just the odd popping of the jaw.

Well, once the dust settled after the collision it became apparent that the increased pain in my face was constant and not abating. I went to go and see Dr Wexler who said yep, TMJ and suggested infra red treatments, physiotherapy and a mouth guard. He submitted this treatment plan to the car insurance company who turned around and sent me to get a second opinion.

I saw Dr Leroy Shaw who suggested that orthodontics, rather than the Dr Wexler way of doing things would work in his opinion.

I went to go see Dr John Kershman, Orthodontist, to see what he thought. Before I even got in to see him I asked the other people in the waiting room what they thought and they gave rather poor reports of his bed side manor. One mother even went so far as to call a friend to get me the name and number of another orthodontist.

He suggested a mouth guard built in the opposite way of Dr Wexler's followed by braces and then orthognathic surgery (breaking my jaw) and more braces. He explained that the mouth guard would be needed to calm my jaw joint down enough to allow for braces and the the mouth guard was not really a long term solution. I was lucky to get even that out of him. He was up and down no less than 10 times during our consultation to go see other patients (he has a buzzer system and he jumps the second it goes off) and I didn't get to ask all of my questions before I was ushered out of this area and in to see his office manager to make payment arrangements.

Next I paid for my own evaluation with Dr Milne, Orthodontist. I did this because so much information was being thrown at me that I wanted to see what someone else said. Plus, I wanted to get a lot of my questions answered. I thought that Dr Milne was awesome! He took the time to sit down with me for no less than 20 minutes, uninterrupted with the door closed to distractions and answered all of my questions.

He suggested no mouth guard, straight to braces for about 18 months, very likely orthognathic surgery, and then a continuation of braces with no need for a mouth guard long term. He explained that the mouth guard would not be needed since once he got the braces on and started moving things around, I would see almost immediate relief. He warned that the relief would likely last only while the braces were on if I didn't go the whole way of doing the surgery if it was required. His view is that the collision moved things to such an extent that without trying to re-align the jaw, I would always have problems.

It seems that the orthognathic surgery is an unfortunate recurring theme but at least now that I have heard it more than once, I believe that it might actually be true.

So what is a girl to do? I have no idea. I have all of these dental professionals chiming in but it is so hard to say who is right. We have to submit the treatment plans to the insurance company and see what, if any of this they will approve.

I really just wish this whole thing was behind me.

DPoD June 7th - One More Badger Day!

The chilly mornings that we've had this week have brought back the long sleeves. The only thing cuter in my mind than Big C wearing his Badger shirt is him saying 'Badder Dee' when I put it on him and smiling his little heart out.

DPoD June 6th - More Silliness

Big C cuts a rug!!!!!

DPoD June 5th - Some Silly time part I

With the weather being what it is, the boys all thought that it was time for a little silliness. Here is Monkey playing a little electric (ummm, battery operated) guitar. Be sure to hum a little ABC-1,2,3 from the Jackson 5 if you know the tune.

DPoD June 4th - Big C in the cupboard

Daddy took 2 seconds out of the room and look what Big C managed to do. Open the cupboard doors (both sets you'll note), get inside and onto the TOP shelf, then get stuck and adamant about daddy finding a solution. Who's the monkey again? I can't tell anymore.

We love you mommy.

DPoD June 3rd - Why not to carry a teething baby on your shoulders

So we went to a barbecue today to celebrate our friend Erin's graduation from university (woo hoo!). While walking through the backyard I put Big C up on my shoulders. Well, my head magnet went off (my head is attracted to anything sharp, I'll have to make a file) and as I stpped up Big C came down and his new teeth chomped into my head. Note the distinct semi-circular pattern and the 'two front teeth' that he won't need to ask for in time for Christmas. Like all other head wounds, it'll heal.

DPoD June 2nd - Experienceing Technical Difficulties

Despite loving these messages on TV in the 80's, we are experiencing technical difficulties today. The camera batteries are recharging. Please be patient, someone is working on the problem.

Snack time

It is snack time and Dave has the kids outside at the picnic table. He puts them down and then walks away. Big C starts to get up:

So Dave goes over and sits him back down:

Then Dave walks back towards the house:

Big C is already braced on the table to get back up. Like the shampoo bottle say, wash, rinse, repeat. Sigh.

The Scooter

Today was a big garage sale day. Beck and I headed off to see what crap that we don't need, we could add to our collections.


One of the things on my short list was a three wheeled scooter for Monkey. They are hard to find. I started looking last year.


Today I found a Disney Princess scooter. I was so pleased. I knew that he would love it to bits. Monkey loves pink, loves princesses-or so I thought. I get it home and he is thrilled that I got him a scooter. He announces that, while he likes the scooter, he doesn't like the princesses. I am confused. We have a heart to heart and I am worried that someone has made a stupid comment that has thrown him off. Nope:

PRINCESSES ARE SCARY.

This is his answer. He goes on to explain that some are real and some are not, and some talk. That makes them scary. Okay then. What am I to do? I phone up a friend of mine with three daughters who love to dress up as princesses, that I happen to know are the proud owners of a Sponge Bob Square Pants three wheeled scooter. I explain my predicament. They are only too happy to make the switch. We go to pick it up and everyone is thrilled.


Monkey loves his scooter and races up and down the sidewalk with it.

Stupid scary princesses.

Our marriage

Yep, this picture pretty much sums it up.

DPoD June 1st - The New Car (for Big C)

Since mommy found another great used deal out there the boys are benefitting once again. Mommy found a fabulous Little Tikes car bed, which is currently only a frame since the boys want nothing more than to climb around it. They've had a fabulous morning with it and I'm sure there will be lots more fooling around in, on, under, through and over it in the days, weeks and months to come.

Thanks mommy!!!